Sunday, December 25, 2011

Happy New Year, Sarah Mac

OK Sarah

you asked for it!

A Merry Christmas may not be on the cards for Sarah Mac this year but I post this in the hope that New Year will be better and note that it is a day closer.

Sarah Mac, this year you have been an inspiration, support and a  friend. You had been on my mind constantly over the last few days - even before I read your post- because it seems so odd not to be able to send a card or a text to someone you care about at Christmas. In other circumstances, I would tell you about my new job and we'd laugh about it and I'd ask you what you were having for Christmas lunch. I was hoping all was better, well even! It seems not and I know the hollowness you must be feeling just now for it has happened to me. It won't help today, but if it happens again, the trick is to plan and to learn to turn this particular negative into a positive. It took me a few years to get the hang of it but it can be done, I promise.
But for now, look after yourself. If doing/thinking of stuff is painful, then do nothing. Do not give the sadness energy my fabulous girl. Get those smellies and Pingu vids out, whatever was in the box.
Know that I am here and thinking of you.

Les xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

1 comment:

  1. Ok, you made me cry :) but in a good way.

    Nothing else for it, we will have to make the jump from cyber to real life friendship somehow very soon.

    Thank you so much for this xxxxxxxx